YOU DON'T SAY

“You don’t say.”

 

You’re right, I don’t

 

I don’t say

how badly I’m hurting.

 

I don’t say

how much I care.

 

I don’t say

what I need from you.

 

I don’t say,

“How can I help?”

 

I don’t say,

“No”.  

 

I don’t say

because it feels like weakness,

because it feels like failure,

because it feels like neediness.

 

I don’t say

because I don’t want to be a burden,

because I don’t want to be “that” friend,

because I don’t want to be “fixed”.

 

So if I do say

something, anything

vulnerable,

tender,

raw and true,

know

it’s something

I don’t say

to just anyone,

but I’m saying it to you.  

 

(How do we create relationships

strong and safe enough to welcome

those things we don’t say?)