Don’t presume to know
what someone else’s life contains.
Presumption is trying to count the rings of a tree
by looking at its bark.
Reflections
Don’t presume to know
what someone else’s life contains.
Presumption is trying to count the rings of a tree
by looking at its bark.
So many things to consider
when I sit down to eat my dinner...
I live in a house I call my own
even though it belongs to the bank
and I just live here on loan.
The table at which I sit,
first came to the family
when my Grandfather purchased it.
As a boy, I ate here and studied,
celebrated birthdays with my buddies.
Now it sits in the bank’s dining room.
I still eat my meals here,
but the table will be someone else’s
when I take to my tomb.
These children too,
I say they are mine
but soon enough they will be on their own,
just a matter of time.
I could become fearful while thinking these thoughts,
wondering if life has meaning or whether it ought
to be enough to be grateful
and feel like a winner
because I’ve been given
children
and table
and house
and dinner.
“Back to business” the boss said,
after a coffee
break.
“There are shareholders
and executives fretting
that their investments are at
stake.”
Most have forgotten,
in the rush to get things
done,
return on investment is only
one
of the tools to measure
whether you’ve
won.
More helpful to remember,
business is made for the people,
not people for the
bus-i-ness.
When you aren’t sure
what
or
who
you can count on,
just show up.
Let it go.
All you think is holding you together.
The way you tense your
shoulders
and
neck.
The force required to hold in your stomach.
What people think.
Who “owes” you.
Who wronged you.
How you let yourself down.
What you “should” do.
Let it go.
Just for one breath.
Or two.
Now what will you do?
(What we think holds up together
is often what is tearing us apart.)
Go slowly.
Don’t wear tight-fitting clothes.
Walk carefully.
Reconsider your appointments.
Do only what is necessary.
Take more time.
Drink cocoa quietly, holding the cup with both hands.
Wonder at the beauty right in front of you.
What happens when you change
just
one
thing?
If you do it every single day,
it can change
every
thing.
And so begins the first quarter,
another year has come and gone.
Some dreams came true.
Some dreams said, “So long.”
And even though it is simply
the turning of a calendar’s page,
a New Year,
a first quarter,
feels like looking into a new age.
There is excitement, urgency, expectation.
The engines revving, waiting to take on the first turn.
But just before rushing headlong into the days ahead,
take time to remember what you have learned.
A New Year,
a first quarter
begins with
this minute,
this hour,
and what you do
Every. Single. Day.
Now the letter:
Write a letter to yourself recounting
how 2018 went
(be specific,
detail what happened each
month,
quarter, etc.
how you stayed focused,
how you overcame the challenges of the year,
write yourself anything else you deem helpful,
then thank yourself for another year.)
At the end of the letter, include the 4 questions
to do this process all over again.
Schedule the letter to be sent to be received/opened by you on December 27th.
Happy New Year.
May you experience more joy and wonder than you can even imagine.
Question 4:
What must be of first importance now?